Comments on: What If I Say I’m Not Like The Others http://blog.maclaughlinstudios.com/2008/11/06/what-if-i-say-im-not-like-the-others-2/ "Your love life is such a disaster, they should put orange cones all around you..." Mon, 17 Oct 2011 10:36:16 -0400 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Haven http://blog.maclaughlinstudios.com/2008/11/06/what-if-i-say-im-not-like-the-others-2/comment-page-1/#comment-312920 Haven Sun, 09 Nov 2008 21:08:14 +0000 http://blog.maclaughlinstudios.com/?p=1034#comment-312920 Not many people are looking for the person inside of us, yet here we go looking for the person they are inside. Some are easy, others not. I started dating again (3 years post NPD), what a learning experience, but I feel like I have done something worthwhile for myself. Does not matter no success, what matters is I put my life experiences to use externally in my behavior. Practicing what I preach so to speak. Will I find the one? Not sure, but I have danced (never had), bought a MAC (love it), vacationed like I haven't in decades (Mountain photo shoot!!!), and many more activities for ME!!! CS3 I am battling with, but there are many have shown me what they know and they are crazy happy to show a new Mac user!!! LOL Good god look at what you have done!!!!! Exclamations all round, Amazing, miraculous!!! You have come an amazing way!!!! I can not for the life of me imagine having been in your shoes,, no way.... Quickly backing away from those shoes!!!! We have needs, but we are not equipped to resolve ourselves within an emotion, and why we search for one who can see the need we are selves cant. Or a shrink if need be. None of us can know an emotion while experiencing it,we are not mentally endowed. Some times a person gets lucky and finds one who happens to hit the nails on the head real time, for a while or for a life time. If we dont get lucky, well we still have trust in our self. We might not figure out some emotions right away, but figuring them out a bit later is better than getting them wrong!!! Hope this helps,,, if not... Delete key works fine.... [delete, command R] :) Not many people are looking for the person inside of us, yet here we go looking for the person they are inside. Some are easy, others not. I started dating again (3 years post NPD), what a learning experience, but I feel like I have done something worthwhile for myself. Does not matter no success, what matters is I put my life experiences to use externally in my behavior. Practicing what I preach so to speak. Will I find the one? Not sure, but I have danced (never had), bought a MAC (love it), vacationed like I haven’t in decades (Mountain photo shoot!!!), and many more activities for ME!!! CS3 I am battling with, but there are many have shown me what they know and they are crazy happy to show a new Mac user!!! LOL Good god look at what you have done!!!!! Exclamations all round,
Amazing, miraculous!!! You have come an amazing way!!!! I can not for the life of me imagine having been in your shoes,, no way…. Quickly backing away from those shoes!!!!

We have needs, but we are not equipped to resolve ourselves within an emotion, and why we search for one who can see the need we are selves cant. Or a shrink if need be. None of us can know an emotion while experiencing it,we are not mentally endowed. Some times a person gets lucky and finds one who happens to hit the nails on the head real time, for a while or for a life time. If we dont get lucky, well we still have trust in our self. We might not figure out some emotions right away, but figuring them out a bit later is better than getting them wrong!!!

Hope this helps,,, if not… Delete key works fine…. [delete, command R] :)

]]> By: Network Geek http://blog.maclaughlinstudios.com/2008/11/06/what-if-i-say-im-not-like-the-others-2/comment-page-1/#comment-312907 Network Geek Fri, 07 Nov 2008 21:36:30 +0000 http://blog.maclaughlinstudios.com/?p=1034#comment-312907 Yep, I was different, too, until I was the same. My ex-wife cheated on her first two husbands. Yes, that means that I was the "other man". I was sure that it would be different with me because I was so, so different from her first two husbands. But, in her mind, I wasn't, really, any different at all. And, karma, being the unrelenting SOB that he is, I was also cheated on. What goes around comes around. You have your reasons to be wary. Listen to your heart. Red flags go up for a reason. The lesson I learned was never to ignore them. Good luck. Yep, I was different, too, until I was the same.
My ex-wife cheated on her first two husbands. Yes, that means that I was the “other man”. I was sure that it would be different with me because I was so, so different from her first two husbands. But, in her mind, I wasn’t, really, any different at all. And, karma, being the unrelenting SOB that he is, I was also cheated on. What goes around comes around.

You have your reasons to be wary. Listen to your heart. Red flags go up for a reason. The lesson I learned was never to ignore them.
Good luck.

]]> By: MDL http://blog.maclaughlinstudios.com/2008/11/06/what-if-i-say-im-not-like-the-others-2/comment-page-1/#comment-312905 MDL Fri, 07 Nov 2008 06:17:13 +0000 http://blog.maclaughlinstudios.com/?p=1034#comment-312905 Sorry to see you are so bummed out, You always seems to have things together. The trust thing is such a b_tch sometimes. I wish I knew the anwers myself. I think when it comes down to it a lot of people do not want to do something that does not make them instantly gratified. Trust is long term and the short sighted do not see it Sorry to see you are so bummed out, You always seems to have things together. The trust thing is such a b_tch sometimes. I wish I knew the anwers myself. I think when it comes down to it a lot of people do not want to do something that does not make them instantly gratified. Trust is long term and the short sighted do not see it

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